Agustus 21, 2014

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I clearly have problems, and I don't know who I'm going to share this with. So I decided to post it on my blog. I'm sorta furious about something, so please pardon my french.

I learned the hard way that you just can't please everyone. Sometimes, there's this jerk who just hate your guts. This jerk just hate you for something that you can't even understand and whatever you do to fix that will make the situation even worse. These kind of people is the worst.
The only solution that I come up is this : Just pray to god that whatever circumstances that brought the two of you together will pass, and avoid these jerks at all time.

There's this prick who appear to like you, but talk shit about you behind your back. These guys can go fuck yourself. You're the reason that I have some sort of trust issues. If you dislike someone, just tell them. If you pretend to be their friend, the guy that you hate will think that you like him, thus spending more time with you. And the more time they spend with you, the more reason for you to hate him. This whole thing won't happen if you established your friendship early on. You'll save everyone's time.

And there's this fucktard who tried to change you. They talk shit about the thing that you like and they want you to change. They actually like you, but they hate everything that you like and s/he want you to change it for them? Fuck that. I can like whatever I wanted to like, I can listen to whatever songs that appeal to my ears, and I can read whatever book that I want to read. Don't tell me what to do!

There's also this guy who appear to dislike you, but s/he's to polite to point out to you. Just take a few hint that these guys just don't want your presence, and spend less time with these guys. You'll both will be glad that you did.

Those guys who liked you simply because you're an valuable asset for them? Unfortunately, these bastards existed too... After you gave them what they need, POOF! They will disappear. But at least they treat you somewhat better than the other guys that I listed above.

I believe that everything in this world is 'balanced' somehow.
Those guys who just being kind with you for no reason? They exist too...
Those guys who pretend to hate you but they secretly like you? They exist too...
Those guys who like you for who you are? These guys are rare, but they exist too...
Those guys who will help you without expecting stuff in return? They exist too...
Those guys who will laugh at your dumbest joke? They exist too..

And if you can find any of these guys? Keep them. Surround yourself with the person who embrace who you are. After all, A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself (*A quote from Jim Morrison).

I guess that's all.
Bye.